A guest becomes a blowhard
My Friday club had a holiday party today. No official plan was on the agenda, and we had a guest. Usually a guest is most welcome in our club. Today’s guest spoke with an irritating and patronizing tone, suggesting that he was superior to us. His voice of authority was most unwelcome.
Call him “Bill.” Bill began by lecturing to us about the history of his organization, and how it far surpassed our group. He spoke far too long, without invitation, while the rest of us were expecting a social hour among peers. Heck, I was expecting a Christmas party – and here was Bill Blowhard lecturing us with his inflated history. I was not impressed.
Kim wanted to end the meeting, but Bill asked for time to lecture again just as we were closing. “Just one minute!” he insisted, and he spoke for at least five. I started the clapping when he seemed to exceed his welcome by my standards. What do you do when a guest exceeds your standards of courtesy?
Call him “Bill.” Bill began by lecturing to us about the history of his organization, and how it far surpassed our group. He spoke far too long, without invitation, while the rest of us were expecting a social hour among peers. Heck, I was expecting a Christmas party – and here was Bill Blowhard lecturing us with his inflated history. I was not impressed.
Kim wanted to end the meeting, but Bill asked for time to lecture again just as we were closing. “Just one minute!” he insisted, and he spoke for at least five. I started the clapping when he seemed to exceed his welcome by my standards. What do you do when a guest exceeds your standards of courtesy?
Great writing - yes, this is a problem. We cannot always pick our guests or relatives, just our friends - thanks for your long term friendship. I sometimes miss the TM meetings, but am involved with my writing and publishing groups and have ample opportunity to speak with my business. My best to you in 2009 - Happy New Year - Patricia
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